Robert knew what it was like being raised by a single mom, so he understood the importance of a male role model in a boy’s life. That’s one of the reasons he decided to volunteer as a “Big” at Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Bay Area. But he never guessed how much his role as a mentor would expand his sense of family and self.
Aldo was about seven years old when he met Robert. He wanted someone who he could talk to and hang out with, having some one-on-one time apart from his family. But he never could have imagined how influential a Big would be in his life.
Almost a Decade Together
Fast forward over nine years of being matched, ‘Little’ Aldo and ‘Big’ Robert have shared some of the most mundane, as well as important, life events. Just a few examples:
- They enjoy simple pleasures like getting ice cream (Robert loves mint chip, Aldo… not so much, but that just leaves more for Robert)
- They’ve shared momentous occasions like Aldo being the ring bearer at Robert’s wedding
- And their relationship will impact Aldo’s potential in life. Robert helped Aldo (AND his siblings) set up retirement accounts, even encouraging them by matching their savings with his own funds.
The totality of all these moments leads to a deep connection, as evidenced by a document Rob has kept adding to since Aldo was very young. It is a record of all of the funny and insightful things Aldo has said to him during their time together. As Robert reads the quotes aloud, tears come to Aldo’s eyes. Each quote reminds them both of a memory they shared, evidence of how much they’ve meant to each other and will always mean to each other.
As Robert and his wife prepare for parenthood, Aldo will continue the the next generation of mentoring. Aldo will be like the baby’s “Big Brother” Robert muses. Aldo nods and smiles.